Style: a manner of doing something
African Fashion Connoisseur, Diana Opoti Shows Us How To ‘Buy African’

Links de la crème: The Mad Style and Grace Weekly Roundup

I search for the best in beauty and fashion so that you don’t have to. Here’s the Mad Style and Grace Weekly Roundup, click and enjoy!   My Fashion S/ash Life: African Fashion Connoisseur, Diana Opoti Shows Us How To ‘Buy…


FLY STYLE 101: School Daze

Sound so smart like you graduated college, like you went to Yale but you probably went to Howard.-Drake But Drake, I went to both HU and Yale. #BOOM. If you’re heading back to school then cure your back to school…

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Ask Fly Carla: What to Wear to an All White Party

Kyra says, “Fly Carla, I need your help! There is a white party coming up and I want to LOOK fly but I have no idea what to wear. I love the website ASOS but a lot of females will…


Black Excellence at the 2014 Emmy Awards

My brown sisters did the darn thing at last night’s 66th Annual Primetime Emmy Awards. I was in awe at the gorgeous brown skin with talent walking the red carpet. This wasn’t Wiz Khalifa’s “Blacc Hollywood”, this was real Black…


Grace: the free and unmerited favor of God
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You GLOW Girl!

As I navigate through life I often think, is my light shining? I wonder if people see God when they look at me, because that is who I want them to see. It’s what I pray for daily. However, sometimes…

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Outfit Of The Week

“Love a woman when she got a tight outfit/Outfit meaning outlook and disposition.”- A Tribe Called Quest   Changing clothes is easy but when God strips you down and starts to change you from the inside, it’s a painful process…

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Waiting in Faith

I am waiting for God to move in my life. He is the only one that can take me where I want to go. I am in a development period and I feel God is saying, “You can’t get to…


Sisterly Advice from Heather Lindsey

I have learned that when I take care of God’s business, He truly takes care of me. I don’t have to worry. I don’t have to fear. I don’t have to try to control my life. I don’t have to…


Dear Jada, Keep Ya Head Up

Jada, for some reason we are living in a time when males are hell bent on disrespecting women. Men and boys are being taught that it is okay to be a disrespectful asshole. This happens because assholes are what we…

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#np “Make Me Proud” by Drake featuring Nicki Minaj

    “I like a woman with a future and a past.”- Drake While on the treadmill I was listening to Drake’s “Make me Proud,” and the first line stuck to me. Although I listen to this song often, the…


My First Blogger Award + 7 Things You Didn’t Know About Me

    The rules for the nomination are: Thank the blogger that nominated you and link back to their site!  Tell seven random facts about yourself.  Pay it forward to thirteen versatile bloggers. Shout out to Courtney of Think and…


Mama Joyce Says

An attitude is an inward thought that wiggles its way out -Joyce Meyer


Celibacy Blues Part Deux: Four Seasons of Loneliness

I recently wrote on the topic of being celibate and I thought that was where the conversation ended. I put it out there and moved on. But honestly, this here celibacy thing is a hard knock life. It is not…

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#NowPlaying Nas ‘Daughters’

For my brothers with daughters, I call this: You must know that you are the first love of your daughter’s life. How you treat her will undoubtedly set the precedent for how she will allow a man to treat her….